Shady Chicks

I’ve had wayyyy too much coffee for a Saturday afternoon and I’m super wired. I’m home, laying out on my balcony getting some sun and I started thinking about something I went through last month. I found out one of my girlfriends did something super shady and didn’t have the balls to tell me what was up. I can’t get into details because too many people read this blog but what I can say is that when you do something fuc**d up you should just own up to it. It shows you have character.  It’s hard to respect someone who lacks character.

I wrote in an earlier blog that I’ve always felt like one of the guys. I never have many girlfriends because this kind of thing happens a lot.  I seem to have all my relationships with girls fizzle out because they do some bullsh*t and can’t be trusted. Is this a common trait amongst females? Why do girls have less integrity than men? This really baffles me. I mean I’m not saying all men have integrity, there’s a lot of punks out there too, but it seems to me that the vast majority of women have similar stories. Are chicks like this cause they’re so insecure that when they do stupid shit they don’t want to be judged so they don’t tell anyone? They just let shit hit the fan and will deal with the drama when it comes? Well I don’t like drama, so when I see the bs coming my way I just cut people off.

I never go through this crap with my boys. We just chill and have a good time and if sh*t needs to be said we just tell it like it is and get on with our lives. ALL relationships should be like this. The world would be a better place. That’s just my humble opinion.

Anyway, do you guys have the same issues with your girlfriends? And do you have any advice for me or is this just what I should expect?

Your girl,
Chaise

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  Captain Jack April 29, 2011 at 2:10 PM

  I run into many women that do what you discribed. I took this behavior as a fact of women and learned to accept it. (Drama Queens!) Most men don’t like drama. When a women brings drama to the table it makes them less atractive. It also brings chronic stress into peoples lives that is unnessary. I’m glad you brought this subject up for I will no longer just accept this common practice. It’s not healthy.

  CJ

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